Dark side!
I have met some people who can only see the negative side of things. They always talk about the negative aspect of others. They constantly look for things that could be wrong in others.
Here are a few reasons why i think they are like that.
1. They are not satisfied with their lives
Or
2. They are Jealous of others
Or
3. They derive happiness by hurting others feelings and seeing them suffer.
What these people have to realize is that they hurt themselves more than hurting others. They should realize that nobody is going to like them or respect them no matter what good they do. People always remember the hurt inflicted by you more than the good done by you.
What do you think?
4 comments:
There is a bumper sticker - "Mean people suck". I think that says it all about such people. The problem is THEIR's not ours :-)
Absolutely. But if you have a weak mind, you could end up feeling hurt.
Preferably i would avoid such people.
Yup. The old Tamil saying in this case is apt - "Dushtana kanda doora velagu"
Such people become a source of unhappiness. They do not keep anyone around them happy.
Content is the best asset. Once you have it your whole attitude towards seeing things change. Unfortunately such people have all the ingredients in life to keep them happy yet they seek happiness in putting people down, hurting people, etc. Whenever I come across such people, I start respecting other people who see life with a good attitude and spread happiness to everyone.
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